friends are everywhere. but true friends..?

when a person tells me something, i take what they say at face value. i do not infer meaning. i do not hypothesize possible deviations. i simply take their message as their word and then look toward their actions to solidify their words. i trust. this has kept my heart open to all the possibilities in life, but it has also allowed my heart to be broken more times than i can remember by friends who have told me one thing and then later told me another, leaving me confused, unsure of how to keep believing in people.

Time, lessons, learning have all taught me to see things clearer, to see people in less clear cut shapes, to see them in the corners behind trees, their forms ever changing, yet in the end collectively forming an identifiable and definable form.

this kind of friends are everywhere. i know sometimes friends don't tell the truth, because they want to cover the situation so that the other person won't get hurt by his/her actions. but when you get caught on cheating, cheat your beloved ones especially, no matter by words or actions, that will be the worst. shame on you. what you get from the other person is just being dishonestly. do you know what it equals to? just one word. hypocrite. and i have mentioned earlier in my older post, i can't befriends with hypocrite people.

please live your life by being honest. the most common idiom we ever heard, honesty is the best policy. which shows that honest is really needed in life, not just one of friendship's values. let our friendship shines bright. be straight. you get nothing when you live to cover everything from the truth.  explanation is the most preferable ever if you are afraid your actions/words might hurt the other person.

i have mentioned several times. lies are not about your dishonest words only, your actions are also included. your actions ok. it is about your attitude..~~